On Dec 17, 1:16 am, "Tai" <tainuitiDEL...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> Caitriona Mac Fhiodhbhuidhe wrote:
> > On Dec 15, 5:01 pm, vjr...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
(Vicki Robinson) wrote:
> >> In a previous article, Caitriona Mac Fhiodhbhuidhe
> >> <st_brigids_gate_f...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> said:
>
> >>> And YD is staying with me.
>
> >> I'm sorry, Kitten. You worked so hard at this; never wonder if you
> >> couldn't
> >> have done a little more. You did everything you could, and then you
> >> kept on
> >> trying.
>
> >> I'm glad YD is with you, if you are too.
>
> > She's been going to the same counselor he was seeing. She's continuing
> > with her appts and doing what the counselor tells her to. She decided
> > she doesn't want to live her life the way she's seen him live his.
> > She's made a TON of progress in the last month.
>
> > She and I are working on a budget this weekend and considering renting
> > out the 2 spare bedrooms.
>
> I'm sorry you've had to give up the future you wanted with Chewy,
Kitten. I
> hope peace and happiness begin to fill your life from now on.
>
> That YD is staying with you is probably good for her, I'm less certain
it's
> good for you. However, I think you did take on some responsibility for
her
> as her stepmother so I'd feel uncomfortable with the idea if you'd
dropped
> her!
As I'd said a couple months ago, where our relation****p went was up to
her. Since she got into counseling, she's grown quite a bit. She's
taking responsibility for herself and her own happiness. That's made
all the difference in the world in our relation****p.
> I just wonder if you've promptly filled the hole in your life that
> Chewy has left with his eviction. Make sure you look after yourself and
your
> son, as well!
>
I'm trying to keep busy and not let that hole fill in too quickly. I
don't want to do some rebound thing.
YD and I have made a kind of pact - she's going to help me keep my
head on straight wrt not rebounding and I'm going to help her not
become a workahaulic at her job. I think we'll do alright.
Kitten
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