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Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education

by Banty <Banty_member@[EMAIL PROTECTED] > Jul 30, 2008 at 05:01 AM

In article <g6ovi2$5fg$1$8300dec7@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>, Sarah Vaughan says...
>
>Banty wrote:
>> In article <vaur84p9ve6ion5o7p8jebca0879k313kb@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>, Nan says...
>>> On Mon, 28 Jul 2008 08:40:17 -0700 (PDT), Beliavsky
>>> <beliavsky@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
>>>
>>>> If parents are using illegal drugs but are not directly involving the
>>>> child in their activities (for example by having the child take drugs
>>>> or buy the drugs), I am uncomfortable with calling in the police
>>>> because of what a child says or because of his/her appearance.
>>> Why am I not surprised you'd say this....
>>>
>> 
>> In my county we had a family of five, both parents and three elementary
and
>>junior high school aged boys, murdered one night in their home and their
house
>> burned down as a cover.  The culprits, who were both recently
convicted, were
>>drug dealers who had constant business with the father, who was also a
dealer.
>> 
>> Their parents were proud, we were told later by associates, that they
"kept
>>their kids out of" their drug dealing by only doing deals after their
bedtimes,
>> etc.
>> 
>> So these boys were not directly involved in the drug dealing.  Would
you say
>> that were *affected*??!?
>
>Of course, and tragically so.  But they would also have been 'affected' 
>by being whisked off into foster care.  And, based on what I've read 
>about the whole attitude to illicit drugs in the US (and I will accept 
>correction if I've picked up the wrong picture here), I do feel there's 
>a real risk that this might happen even in cases where the parents *are* 
>providing a loving and decent home to the children despite their drug 
>use.  

No one is suggesting searching the house of every student.  We're talking
about
cases where the drug use is *so* affecting a student that people outside
the
venue of the home are noticing it on the student.  That in itself means
not a
loving and decent home.

At that point, it may be decided at some point that foster care is better.
 Is
it *good* - of course not.  It's a bad situation.

The only cases discussed where the problem is apparent by smell only -
believe
me a meth lab is not a good place, or a safe place, nor a loving or decent
place
either.


>I think that sort of thing, rather than the situation re****ted in 
>an earlier post where a child came to school having actually *taken* a 
>drug, is what Beliavsky may have been talking about.

He may have not taken the drug directly; he may have been having contact
highs. 
(Which is one of my objections to mj although some people think it's no
big deal
- it's not a drug people can keep to themselves.)

Banty
 




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the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Stephanie" <  2008-07-23 16:35:54 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Banty <Banty_member@[E  2008-07-23 13:58:40 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Stephanie" <  2008-07-23 17:09:09 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Nikki <skavanagh@[EMAI  2008-07-23 16:24:30 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Banty <Banty_member@[E  2008-07-23 18:15:50 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Stephanie" <  2008-07-23 21:34:33 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Cailleach <cailleach@[  2008-07-23 14:56:06 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Donna Metler"   2008-07-23 18:34:48 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Chookie <ehrebeniuk@[E  2008-07-26 10:10:09 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Clisby <clisbyw@[EMAIL  2008-07-25 20:33:57 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Tai" <tainu  2008-07-24 13:11:53 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
hedgehog42 <LLG042@[EM  2008-07-23 17:06:19 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
NL <nlandau@[EMAIL PRO  2008-07-24 03:49:04 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Stephanie" <  2008-07-24 11:05:02 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
NL <nlandau@[EMAIL PRO  2008-07-24 17:23:50 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"MarieD" <ab  2008-07-24 12:09:42 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
NL <nlandau@[EMAIL PRO  2008-07-24 19:28:46 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"MarieD" <ab  2008-07-24 17:58:07 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Chookie <ehrebeniuk@[E  2008-07-26 10:02:35 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Tai" <tainu  2008-07-24 12:27:25 
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"Stephanie" <  2008-07-24 10:57:11 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Banty <Banty_member@[E  2008-07-24 09:18:50 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Stephanie" <  2008-07-24 13:17:59 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Cailleach <cailleach@[  2008-07-24 01:36:34 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Pologirl <pologirl@[EM  2008-07-24 08:46:27 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Stephanie" <  2008-07-24 15:22:03 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Banty <Banty_member@[E  2008-07-24 13:26:00 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Stephanie" <  2008-07-24 20:39:02 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Donna Metler"   2008-07-24 15:53:12 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Chookie <ehrebeniuk@[E  2008-07-26 09:52:00 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Cailleach <cailleach@[  2008-07-24 09:33:50 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Pologirl <pologirl@[EM  2008-07-24 13:58:01 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
hedgehog42 <LLG042@[EM  2008-07-24 16:10:43 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
hedgehog42 <LLG042@[EM  2008-07-24 19:11:27 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
hedgehog42 <LLG042@[EM  2008-07-24 19:49:40 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Stephanie" <  2008-07-25 08:17:26 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Banty <Banty_member@[E  2008-07-25 05:41:53 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Banty <Banty_member@[E  2008-07-25 05:33:45 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
toto <scarecrow@[EMAIL  2008-07-25 14:28:20 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Nan <Badmam@[EMAIL PRO  2008-07-25 15:31:17 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Clisby <clisbyw@[EMAIL  2008-07-25 13:13:22 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Banty <Banty_member@[E  2008-07-25 12:21:11 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Donna Metler"   2008-07-25 17:08:04 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Chookie <ehrebeniuk@[E  2008-07-26 09:44:00 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Banty <Banty_member@[E  2008-07-25 16:49:50 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Chookie <ehrebeniuk@[E  2008-07-27 13:01:45 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Pologirl <pologirl@[EM  2008-07-25 20:46:06 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
cnbottcher@[EMAIL PROTECT  2008-07-27 21:56:48 
OT spelling? (was: Re: the requirement that the state *provide*
NL <nlandau@[EMAIL PRO  2008-07-28 09:34:45 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Banty <Banty_member@[E  2008-07-28 04:52:55 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Donna Metler"   2008-07-28 08:22:10 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Stephanie" <  2008-07-28 13:14:42 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Beliavsky <beliavsky@[  2008-07-28 08:40:17 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Nan <Badmam@[EMAIL PRO  2008-07-28 15:53:22 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Banty <Banty_member@[E  2008-07-28 09:10:31 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Nan <Badmam@[EMAIL PRO  2008-07-28 16:18:17 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Sarah Vaughan <nannyog  2008-07-30 06:51:59 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Banty <Banty_member@[E  2008-07-30 05:01:48 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Rosalie B. <gmbeasley@  2008-07-30 08:59:24 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Donna Metler"   2008-07-30 08:08:17 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Stephanie" <  2008-07-28 13:15:38 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Chookie <ehrebeniuk@[E  2008-07-30 13:50:03 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
toto <scarecrow@[EMAIL  2008-07-30 13:14:42 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Beliavsky <beliavsky@[  2008-07-28 09:30:27 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Banty <Banty_member@[E  2008-07-28 09:46:16 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Stephanie" <  2008-07-28 13:18:17 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Beliavsky <beliavsky@[  2008-07-28 12:57:38 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
cnbottcher@[EMAIL PROTECT  2008-07-30 18:40:13 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
"Sarah V." <  2008-08-01 06:50:56 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Banty <Banty_member@[E  2008-08-01 07:44:41 
Re: the requirement that the state *provide* an education
Sarah Vaughan <nannyog  2008-08-10 00:14:21 

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